April 4, 2016

This is a topic that is gonna be a little hard for me to talk about. I can’t say that I am 100% confident. I struggle a lot with it actually. On a daily basis I struggle with the thoughts in my own head. One minute I am thinking positively the next something pops into my head telling me I am fat and need to lose weight.

Am I what society calls skinny? No. Am I okay with that? Yes. I like working out. I don’t do it every day cause there are times I have no motivation. That is okay. I want to lose some weight. But I do it to be the healthiest version of myself I can be. I want to do it for me. It is not for anyone else.



Growing up I was always made fun of for being the heavier one. All my friends were skinnier than me. Even my family called me names like “Chubby” and “Rolly Polly”. I know no matter what I am beautiful. I have no doubt that I am loved by the one I am with. I just have to learn to love myself the way I am. I work on this every day and I will continue to work on it for the rest of my life.

I know I am not alone. Many others struggle with confidence. Most of it is cause by society. The view that models in magazines are how we are supposed to look. Honestly these days most, if not all, is photo-shopped. We need to realize that isn’t how we are supposed to look. If you are healthy then you are the way you are supposed to be. If you are not health then I do believe that you need to work on that. That being said, only a Doctor can tell you if you aren’t healthy. Only a Doctor can tell you what you need to change for your health.  Don’t listen to what anyone else has to say. Be you.

I love y’all so much. I hope this helps someone to know that it is okay to have this struggle. Please comment down below if you struggle with is like me. I would love to chat with you.


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  • Reply Sarah April 5, 2016 at 9:53 am

    Lovely post, I don’t think anyone is a 100% confident a 100% of the time, so I think it’s comforting to know that most people all feel the same way at some point! I very much like your outlook! 🙂

    • Reply Trish April 5, 2016 at 4:07 pm

      Thank you so much Sarah! Glad you enjoyed my post!

  • Reply Ellysia Keddy April 9, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    I love this post, 100% honest. I believe that everyone feels similar. I think it takes a lot to write this post xx

    • Reply Trish April 9, 2016 at 5:32 pm

      Thank you Ellysia (: it was something I don’t talk about much but I felt it was something that needed to be said (:

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